The Good Stuff: December’s Inspiration, Warmth, and Winter Joy
Dive into this month’s roundup of creative treasures, seasonal comforts, and simple pleasures to brighten the colder months.
Welcome back to The Good Stuff! Always a fun time pulling these links together for you every few weeks. Keep sending me what’s lighting you up, let me know by commenting below. As we enter December, what's your winter pleasure?
Here’s what I’m into this month…
I recently spent the day at Stanford and was reminded of just how wonderful it is to live near colleges and universities. The energy of the students, faculty, and vibrant campus community is truly contagious. It’s inspiring to be in a place where innovation is constantly unfolding, and equally refreshing to see the campus’s open spaces and museums filled with people from the surrounding communities enjoying the excitement and energy.
The Anderson Collection at Stanford University and the Stanford Cantor Arts Center have become my go-to spots for inspiration this month. The Anderson Collection is especially unique because the art is hung as though it were still in the Anderson family’s home, creating a warm, intimate atmosphere that allows you to experience the pieces as part of a living environment. Just across the way, the Cantor Arts Museum offers a stunning range of art, from classical to modern, with Rodin’s Gates of Hell always leaving a deep impression. On my most recent visit, I took the sculpture garden tour, which added a whole new layer of storytelling to the experience. Both museums are free to the public and tucked into the breathtakingly beautiful Stanford campus, which is always a treat to explore.
Muse readers know that each month I share a quote from the book Art is the Highest Form of Hope. I love this book, and was delighted to discover Phaidon published a writers version! This little book, Every Day a Word Surprises Me, has been my quiet companion this month. It’s filled with the kind of quotes that give pause. Sharp, honest, and beautifully human. I’ve been keeping it on my desk, flipping to a page when I need a little spark of inspiration or a thoughtful break in the middle of a busy day. It’s like having a conversation with some of the greatest writers, and their words always seem to show up just when I need them most.
I’m known to be charmed by wooden rulers. This Merchant & Mills wooden folding ruler is a modern take on a tool my grandfather always had in his pocket, and every time I use it, I’m reminded of his quiet resourcefulness. There’s something so satisfying about its timeless design. It’s simple, sturdy, and endlessly practical. I’ve been using it for everything from measuring spaces for holiday decorations to sketching out quick project ideas. It folds up so neatly, it’s easy to tuck away, but honestly, I love leaving it out because it’s just that beautiful.
This Naadam ribbed cashmere beanie has been living on my head lately, and I’m not even mad about it. It’s ridiculously soft, like wrapping my head in a cozy little cloud, which is exactly what I need right now. Imagine your head in the clouds? Hooray! Whether I’m out with the dog, grabbing a tea, or just trying to look somewhat presentable for a client during the current state of existential dread, this beanie has me covered. Also, important that it’s made sustainably, and comes in a beautiful array of colors. Hooray for that! The Ultraviolet and Bright Orange are my favorite.
My hands get really dry in the winter months and I’m always on the lookout for a cream I can carry with me. But I’m also a total branding snob, so if it goes in my bag, it absolutely must please me aesthetically. The Henné Organics Citrus Luxury Hand Cream has been a little moment of joy this month. I’m a sucker for a good citrus scent, and this one is perfection. It’s bright, fresh, and uplifting without being overpowering. The cream is rich enough to rescue my dry winter hands but absorbs quickly, so I can get back to work without that sticky feeling. It’s cruelty-free and certified organic, plus, the sleek packaging lives up to my “must be pretty to look at” expectations. It feels like a treat every time I reach for it.
What are you loving this month? Fill me in on your favorite finds in the comments.
xxx
LAS
THE CREATIVE
Welcome to The Creative. Twice a month I share quotes from the books, Art is the Highest Form of Hope and The Creative Act. I find perspectives on the creative process to be so meta when it comes to life. We are a creative process and everything we do is subject to the same rules. Creation is non-linear. It's messy. It moves forward and backward. And also gets stuck. Oftentimes we do not realize the purpose of a singular creative process until years later. Creativity likes to surprise us.
While at a bookstore in Point Reyes a few weeks ago, I heard a wild rumor that Rick Rubin’s book, The Creative Act was written by a well known Sausalito ghost writer! I searched around for confirmation and while I could find that one of his books was written by a ghost writer, it was unclear as to whether or not it was The Creative Act. Interesting, right?
Regardless, here’s what I unearthed from within the pages for this week, be it his words or with a little help: “In the creative process it’s often more difficult to accomplish a goal by aiming for it.” - Rick Rubin
This quote illuminates a paradox, and a familiar one at that. It resonates deeply with the tension I often feel about the way advice is offered to creative professionals. There’s truth to Rubin’s observation: when we fixate too rigidly on an outcome, we can disrupt the flow of our process, turning something intuitive into a frustrating struggle. But here’s where I take issue: so much creative advice like this feels generic, as if it’s directed at someone dabbling in creativity rather than those of us who create for a living.
For working creatives, the stakes are higher. Creativity isn’t just a flow state. It’s also accountability, deadlines, clients, budgets, and the constant need to deliver. Telling a professional artist, writer, or musician to stop aiming for a goal is like telling a chef to stop focusing on making dinner. It’s not that the idea is wrong; it’s that it needs reframing.
What if we approached this advice differently? Instead of abandoning goals altogether, we could focus on redefining how we aim. Perhaps it’s not about the rigid goal itself but about holding it lightly, allowing room for experimentation, mistakes, and listening to our materials along the way. For those of us creating under pressure, it’s not about not aiming, it’s about aiming in a way that fuels curiosity and sustains momentum.
Rubin’s quote may not land perfectly for me as-is, but it’s a valuable starting point for thinking about how we approach the tension between creativity and productivity in a more grounded, meaningful way. After all, creating for a living isn’t just about flow, it’s about balancing the art and the work, the process and the product.
What do you think?
MERCURY RETROGRADE
November 26, 2024 - December 15, 2024
Gate 26: The Gate of the Egoist
Gate 5: The Gate of Fixed Patterns
Gate 9: The Gate of Energy for Detail
During retrograde cycles, we're prompted to delve inward and explore the themes presented by the planets. Mercury, the planet linked with communication and intellect, invites us to journey internally when it goes retrograde, offering a chance to align ourselves more effectively for greater clarity and understanding. This period encourages us to be mindful with our thoughts and words, and to take our time with important decisions and communications.
This particular Mercury retrograde cycle, occurring from November 26, 2024, to December 15, 2024, aligns with the energies of Gate 26, The Gate of the Egoist, Gate 5, The Gate of Fixed Patterns, and Gate 9, The Gate of Energy for Detail in Human Design. These gates collectively bring a unique blend of introspection, reassessment, and meticulous attention to detail.
Gate 26: The Gate of the Egoist invites us to examine our individuality and self-interest. It encourages us to reflect on how we assert ourselves in relationships and situations, and whether our actions are driven by genuine self-expression or ego-centric motivations. This gate prompts us to find balance between honoring our personal needs and considering the needs of others.
Gate 5: The Gate of Fixed Patterns emphasizes the tendency to rely on established routines and behaviors. During this retrograde, we're challenged to review these patterns and discern whether they still serve our growth and evolution. It urges us to break free from rigid thinking and embrace flexibility in our approach to life's challenges.
Gate 9: The Gate of Energy for Detail focuses on meticulousness and the pursuit of perfection in our endeavors. This gate encourages us to pay attention to the finer details, refine our skills, and strive for excellence. However, during Mercury retrograde, it reminds us to avoid becoming overly fixated on perfectionism and to allow space for creative spontaneity.
This retrograde cycle prompts us to revisit past decisions, projects, and relationships with a critical eye. It encourages us to resolve misunderstandings, revise plans, and clarify our intentions moving forward. Delays and miscommunications may occur, urging us to practice patience and resilience as we navigate through potential challenges.
Journal Prompts for Reflection During Mercury Retrograde
1. Explore your motivations: Reflect on your actions and decisions. Are they driven by genuine authenticity or influenced by ego-driven desires? How can you align your actions more authentically with your true self?
2. Review your routines: Assess your daily routines and habits. Which ones are supportive and which ones are limiting? How can you introduce flexibility and adaptability into your routines?
3. Focus on details: Consider a recent project or task. How can you enhance your attention to detail without becoming overwhelmed by perfectionism? What small adjustments can improve your efficiency and effectiveness?
4. Reflect on communication: Review recent conversations or exchanges. Are there any misunderstandings that need clarification? How can you improve your communication style to ensure clarity and understanding?
Embrace this Mercury retrograde cycle as an opportunity for self-reflection, growth, and refinement. Use the introspective energy of Gates 26, 5, and 9 to deepen your understanding of yourself and your interactions with the world around you.
Ready to explore more about your unique cosmic influences and Human Design? Schedule a reading with me to uncover deeper insights into your personal journey and potential.
SOLAR TRANSIT
11-28-24
Gate 9
Gate of Energy for Detail
On November 28, the sun gracefully moves through Gate 9, known as the Gate of Energy for Detail. This transit invites you to embark on a journey of introspection and self-discovery focused on the chance to meticulously contemplate the details essential for crafting your desired end result.
Gate 9 serves as an inspiring catalyst, urging you to recognize and honor your innate ability to think with precision and unwavering focus. As you delve into the intricacies, honing in on details and prioritizing essential elements, you not only unlock the empowerment required but also set the stage for a methodical pursuit of both personal and collective objectives.
Moreover, Gate 9 presents a compelling challenge—to perceive both the details and the grand tapestry of the big picture. In embracing this holistic perspective, you elevate your capacity to navigate the intricacies while keeping sight of overarching goals.
Here are some journaling prompts to deepen your understanding and engagement with this transit:
1. Identify a current goal and pinpoint specific details crucial to its success. How can focusing on these details enhance your progress?
2. Recall a recent experience where precision and focus were essential. What insights did you gain from that situation?
3. In what areas of your life do you feel empowered to methodically pursue objectives? How can you maximize this empowerment during the Gate 9 transit?
4. Choose a personal goal requiring attention to detail. What steps can ensure careful consideration and prioritization of each detail?
The passage through Gate 9 is a call to introspection and the cultivation of precision and unwavering focus. This transit serves as a unique opportunity to explore the details essential for achieving desired outcomes, empowering individuals to methodically pursue both personal and collective objectives while encouraging a holistic perspective that harmonizes these details with the broader picture of life.
TAPPING PROMPT
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EFT - Emotional Freedom Technique Tapping Prompt for this transit.
"Even though I have been frustrated with my lack of focus, I now choose to be clear, and take the actions necessary to create my intentions. And I deeply and completely love and accept myself.”
ZODIAC SEASON
SAGITTARIUS
November 22 – December 21
Sagittarius Season, brings the fiery and mutable energy of this zodiac sign to ignite a quest for knowledge, truth, and spiritual growth. Ruled by expansive Jupiter, Sagittarius inspires a sense of adventure and curiosity, urging individuals to seek higher learning, embark on pilgrimages, and explore new horizons. This period is characterized by enthusiasm, courage, and a thirst for freedom, encouraging creative minds to push boundaries and challenge conventions. In the 9th house, where Sagittarius reigns, beliefs and ideals are shaped, fostering a deep connection to faith, philosophy, and universal truths. Jupiter's influence brings opportunities for abundance, growth, and good fortune, motivating us to embrace life's experiences with optimism and generosity. Sagittarius season invites us to expand perspectives, tap into inner wisdom, and pursue our boldest dreams with unwavering faith and determination.
During Sagittarius season, creative professionals can harness the expansive energy of this sign to fuel their ventures with optimism, innovation, and a spirit of adventure. This is a time to think big, take risks, and explore new avenues of creativity and expression. Embrace opportunities for learning and growth, whether through travel, higher education, or philosophical inquiry, as Sagittarius encourages broadening horizons and expanding perspectives. Incorporate elements of faith and belief into your work, infusing projects with a sense of purpose and meaning. Stay open-minded, adaptable, and willing to embrace change, as Sagittarius season encourages flexibility and evolution. By tapping into the adventurous spirit of Sagittarius, creative professionals can embark on a journey of discovery, pushing boundaries, and unlocking their full potential in work and business endeavors.
Sagittarius Season journal prompts to ignite your spirit
Charting Your Inner Compass
Reflect on a time when you took a leap of faith or pursued a bold dream. How did that experience shape your perspective or beliefs? Use this prompt to explore the themes of courage, optimism, and personal growth in your creative journey.
Adventures in Truth
Sagittarius thrives on the pursuit of knowledge and universal truths. Write about a philosophy, belief, or idea that has profoundly influenced your life or work. How can this truth inspire your creative projects or shift the way you approach challenges?
Expanding Horizons
Imagine you're embarking on an adventure to a place (real or imagined) that represents ultimate freedom and discovery. What do you see, hear, and feel? Describe this journey in vivid detail and connect it to how you want to grow or transform in your creative practice.
The Power of Purpose
Sagittarius energy is rooted in aligning action with meaning. Consider a project or goal you’re working on now. Write about the deeper "why" behind it. What purpose does it serve, and how does it reflect your values, dreams, or connection to something greater than yourself?
THESE THREE THINGS
Back in 2016, I embarked on a daily writing practice that eventually blossomed into a published book titled These Three Things. Over the course of six years, I chronicled three things I learned each day, using it as a unique experiment to nurture my curiosity and foster my creativity. I paired these writings with original photography of cherished family heirlooms and found objects near and around my wild mountain home. These Three Things as a project continues daily with enthusiastic participants across the globe and can now be practiced in the form of a guided journal with the help of the print edition from Running Press/Hachette.
I loved writing this book and sharing the drops of wisdom that arrived from participating in a daily practice. Always the studio artist, I never imagined that writing would become such a large part of my creative life. I am so glad it did! In preparation of bringing the project back in 2025, right here to MUSE, I’m sharing some of my favorite lessons from my book.
There is a distinct difference between a jump and a fall.
Sometimes the resulting feelings are similar but the intent of the action makes a really big difference.
While the feelings that follow might seem similar, disorientation, exhilaration, or even fear, the intent behind the action changes everything. A jump is a choice. It’s a deliberate moment driven by courage, curiosity, or a desire to leap into the unknown. Even if we’re unsure of what lies ahead, a jump carries with it an element of agency and trust in ourselves, a belief that we can handle the outcome, no matter how unpredictable.
A fall, on the other hand, feels unpredicted. It’s something that happens to us, often without warning or control. A fall can feel chaotic, disempowering, and overwhelming, as though we’re at the mercy of forces outside ourselves. The lack of intention behind a fall is what often makes it feel so jarring. Like we were caught off guard or thrown into a situation we weren’t prepared for.
The key difference is in how we approach the experience. A jump might still result in uncertainty, but it’s fueled by choice and self-direction, making even the challenges feel purposeful. A fall, while harder to process, can still teach us something valuable if we’re willing to look closely at how and why it happened.
Understanding this distinction reminds us that in creativity, as in life, intent matters. When we leap into new projects, ideas, or opportunities, we’re embracing the risk as part of the process. And when we fall, it’s not necessarily the end and if it is the end can be a call to realign, adapt, and maybe even gather the courage to jump again.
